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Teens, Young Adults & Families

Sometimes the most effective work is with the young person. Sometimes it starts with the people around them.

Therapy for teens and young adults navigating emotional, behavioral, academic, or life transitions — and for parents who aren't sure what to do next. We figure out what's getting in the way and what might actually help.

Where we start

Before anything else, we get a clear picture of what's going on. That means listening to the young person and, when appropriate, to the people around them. A good assessment doesn't rush to conclusions — it figures out what the actual problem is and what kind of help is most likely to matter.

Individual therapy with the young person

Often the core of the work happens one-on-one. Teens and young adults tend to engage more when they're treated as the capable people they are. The focus might be emotion regulation, anxiety, motivation, relationships, or figuring out what they want — and the approach adjusts to what's actually getting in the way.

When parents are part of the work

The young person is not the only person who may need to learn something new. Sometimes the most effective treatment includes helping parents understand what is happening, respond differently, and support the skills their teen is learning in therapy. The amount and type of parent involvement depends on the young person's age, the concerns we're addressing, family dynamics, and what is most likely to help. That might include parent guidance, skills coaching, shared conversations, or family sessions. We'll also be clear about confidentiality and what information needs to be shared.

When family work is part of treatment

Sometimes the patterns keeping a young person stuck involve the interactions between family members. In those situations, working only with the young person may not be enough. Family sessions can create an opportunity to slow those patterns down, understand what each person is responding to, and practice different ways of communicating and responding. The goal isn't to decide who is at fault. It's to help the family create an environment in which the young person can actually use and maintain what they're learning in therapy.

What the work looks like

A clear structure, at a pace that is workable

  1. 01

    Understand what's going on

    We listen first — to the young person and, when it fits, to the people around them — and form a clear picture of the problem before deciding on the work.

  2. 02

    Decide who's involved

    We figure out together whether the work is individual, parent-guided, or a combination, and set goals that make sense to the people doing the work.

  3. 03

    Build skills and work on what matters

    Sessions focus on the actual problem — emotion regulation, anxiety, conflict, transitions — with concrete skills and honest conversation.

  4. 04

    Review and adjust

    We check in on what's changing and what isn't, and adjust the plan rather than keeping a direction that isn't helping.

Common questions

Questions people ask first

How involved are parents in the work?
It depends on the young person and the situation. With younger teens, parents are usually more involved; with older adolescents and young adults, the work is more often individual. We'll talk about what makes sense and revisit it as things change.
Is what my child shares kept private?
What a young person discusses is generally confidential, with clear limits around safety. I explain those limits up front so everyone understands what stays private and what doesn't.
What if we're not sure therapy is the right step?
That's a reasonable place to start. A phone consultation lets us talk through what's going on and whether therapy — or something else — fits right now.
Do you work with the young person, the parents, or both?
Sometimes the most effective work is with the young person. Sometimes it starts with the people around them. Often it's a combination. We figure out what fits rather than assuming one approach.